Michelle’s Story

Meet the Models: Michelle Gallegos

Michelle Gallegos never expected to hear the words “Stage 4” after having already been diagnosed and treated for breast cancer once before. In 2013, she underwent a double mastectomy and reconstruction, closing what she thought was a painful chapter. More than a decade later, in early 2024, she found herself once again on the other end of a diagnosis—this time, metastatic breast cancer that had spread to her bones.

The recurrence came as a shock. “I was scared when I heard the words ‘Stage 4 metastasis to the bone,’” Michelle remembers. It was a persistent pain during a bout of illness that prompted her to speak up—and a diligent primary care doctor who ordered a CAT scan immediately. “I got the call the next morning and was told I needed to see an oncologist like yesterday. I called my husband in tears.”

A Village of Support

Michelle credits her ability to face each day to the strength of her community. Her family rallies around her, helping her manage the everyday tasks she no longer has the energy to do. Her lifelong friends have been by her side—driving her to appointments, laughing with her, and offering shoulders to cry on when needed. Her “sports mom and dad” community lifts up her son and keeps his routines steady. Her Bible study group surrounds her with faith and care. And her work family provides constant encouragement.

“I would not do anything differently,” she says. “So many people are helping to carry me.”

That help came in the form of rides, meal trains, companionship, and steadfast presence. “A friend started a meal train, and it took the burden off us. When my husband couldn’t take me to appointments, friends Kristin, Julie, Rina, Sharon, and Linda stepped in.”

Unexpected Twists, Unwavering Resolve

The return of her cancer has come with a steep learning curve. Though Michelle handled radiation well at first, she was surprised by the intense side effects after treatment ended. “I didn’t expect to get as sick as I did after radiation. The aftermath was harder than I imagined.” Still, her care team has made the difference: “They make it easier to fight this disease.”

She emphasizes how important it is to be your own advocate. “Do the research. Ask the questions. Always push for the care you deserve,” she says. “You’ll be surprised by how many people show up to support you—but you have to be a voice for yourself, too.”

Words of Wisdom

For those supporting a loved one through cancer, Michelle offers this advice:

“Be there. Listen. Offer to take them somewhere that brings joy. Sit beside them. Drive them to appointments. Just show up and help them live life with the best quality possible.”

And for anyone newly diagnosed: “You’re not alone. It’s okay to feel scared. But you will be surrounded by love—and that love will help carry you through.”

This year, Michelle walks the runway with the weight of two diagnoses behind her—but with unwavering grace, gratitude, and grit in every step forward.